School anxiety and refusal often co-occur with the mental health difficulties that lead families to CAMHS. This guide covers what's behind it and how to work with school.
CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services) — what the letters mean, who it's for, how referral works, and what to do when you hit the wall of waiting times or rejected referrals.
I'm a parent, not a clinician. This guide explains how the CAMHS system works in England, drawing on NHS information, government data, and YoungMinds resources. Services vary by area. If your child is in crisis, contact your GP urgently or go to A&E. You can also call 111 or Samaritans on 116 123 at any time.
CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services) is one of those terms you hear constantly in SEN spaces, and it can feel opaque — not least because the service itself varies enormously depending on where you live. Some families are told their child needs CAMHS and then wait eighteen months. Some are told their child doesn't qualify. Some get seen quickly and find it genuinely helpful. And some discover, after a long wait, that CAMHS isn't the right service for what their child actually needs.
This guide is not about whether CAMHS is good or bad. It's about understanding what you are dealing with — what the service is, who it's for, how the referral pathway works, what to expect at appointments, and what your options are if the system doesn't deliver what your child needs.
CAMHS stands for Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services. It is the NHS provision for children and young people under 18 who are experiencing significant mental health difficulties. It covers presentations including anxiety, depression, self-harm, eating disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), post-traumatic stress, psychosis, and mental health conditions that co-occur with neurodevelopmental conditions like autism and ADHD.
What CAMHS is not, in most areas, is an autism or ADHD diagnostic service. Those assessments usually go through a separate neurodevelopmental pathway — either through CAMHS in areas that have integrated this, or through a separate community paediatrics or assessment service. If you are seeking a diagnosis, your GP will know which route applies in your area. See our guides on getting an autism assessment and getting an ADHD assessment for more on those pathways.
CAMHS also does not typically provide occupational therapy, speech and language therapy, or educational support — those have their own separate referral routes, usually via community paediatrics, school, or your child's EHCP or SEN Support plan.
CAMHS is formally organised into four tiers, though the names and structures vary by NHS Integrated Care Board (ICB) area. When parents say "we've been referred to CAMHS," they almost always mean Tier 3.
GPs, school nurses, health visitors, teachers, and other universal children's workforce. First line of support for low-level emotional needs.
Primary mental health workers, educational psychologists, school counsellors, and targeted community services. Lower-threshold support for mild to moderate difficulties.
Community-based multidisciplinary teams including psychiatrists, clinical psychologists, nurses, and therapists. For moderate to severe, complex mental health needs.
Inpatient units, day services, and highly specialist outpatient services for the most severe presentations. Usually reached via Tier 3 referral.
In practice, the boundaries between tiers are not always clean, and different areas organise things differently. Some areas have renamed their services entirely. If you are unsure what tier you are being referred to, ask the referrer explicitly.
In most areas, referrals to specialist CAMHS (Tier 3) come from professionals — GPs, paediatricians, school SENCOs, educational psychologists, and social workers. You cannot usually self-refer directly to Tier 3 CAMHS. The most common route for parents is via the GP.
"When Ella's anxiety was at its worst, I went to the GP having already written down specifically what I was seeing at home — not just 'she seems anxious' but which situations, what the response looked like, how it was affecting sleep and school. Having it written down made the appointment much more efficient and meant the GP had something specific to put in the referral letter. A supporting note from school on the same visit helped too."
When making or supporting a GP referral, it helps to be specific about:
Not "she seems anxious" but "she has not been able to attend school for six weeks, wakes multiple times in the night with what appear to be anxiety attacks, and has stopped eating more than one meal a day." The referral letter needs enough detail for a triage team to assess urgency.
CAMHS thresholds are partly about how significantly the presentation is affecting the child's daily life — school attendance, sleep, eating, relationships, and safety. Make the impact explicit rather than leaving it implied.
School support, previous therapy, pastoral care, Tier 2 interventions. CAMHS referrals are more likely to be accepted where there is evidence that lower-threshold support has been tried and was insufficient.
If there is any risk of self-harm or harm to others, this must be stated in the referral and will affect triage urgency. Do not leave this unstated in order to avoid alarming people — it is essential information.
CAMHS waiting times are one of the most difficult parts of the current system. The NHS Benchmarking Network reported that as of March 2025, approximately 255,000 children and young people across the UK were waiting for community mental health care. Around 27% of those had waited more than 18 weeks from referral to treatment. Waiting times vary significantly by area: some services measure waits in weeks, others in many months.
A 2024 analysis of NHS data by YoungMinds found that between April and October 2024, there were 34,793 emergency, very urgent, or urgent referrals to CAMHS crisis teams — up 10% on the same period in 2023. Earlier research found that some children had been waiting more than three years before accessing treatment. These figures reflect a system under extraordinary pressure, not a system working as intended.
While waiting, families are often left with very little. There is no substitute for what CAMHS should be providing — but there are things that can help:
Resources, guides, and a parent helpline (0808 802 5544, free to call, Mon–Fri 9:30am–4pm). Specific guidance on navigating CAMHS waiting times.
Free mental health resources for children, young people, and parents. Schools in Mind network provides resources for school staff. Research-based, widely used.
Free, anonymous online mental health support for young people aged 11–25, available in most areas of England. No referral needed. Text-based counselling and peer support.
In-school counselling and mental health support in partner schools. Worth asking your school whether they have a Place2Be counsellor or equivalent.
If the situation deteriorates while waiting, go back to the GP. They can contact the CAMHS waiting list to request escalation if the urgency has increased since the original referral.
Referral rejection is more common than most parents expect. Research cited by the Education Policy Institute (2019) suggested that around 26% of CAMHS referrals in England were rejected. A 2024 STADIA trial published in the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry found that 44% of children referred to CAMHS for emotional difficulties had their referral rejected. The most common stated reasons are that the child does not meet the current severity threshold, or that the presenting difficulty is not considered appropriate for CAMHS specifically.
If your child's referral is rejected, the first step is to ask for the specific reason in writing. The letter of rejection should explain this, but if it does not, ask the referrer (your GP or paediatrician) to follow up and get clarity.
If the rejection is on threshold grounds and the situation has since worsened, or if the original referral lacked detail, the GP can resubmit with stronger evidence. A letter from school documenting the impact on attendance and learning can help.
CAMHS rejection does not mean no support. Ask what lower-threshold Tier 2 services are available locally — primary mental health workers, school-based counsellors, or educational psychology support. These vary by area but are the intended first step for less complex presentations.
Your local SENDIASS (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities Information, Advice and Support Service) can advise on alternative support routes and your rights. They are free, independent, and available to all families with children with SEN, regardless of whether they have an EHCP. Find your local service at sendias.info.
If your child's mental health difficulties are significantly affecting their education, and school cannot meet their needs through SEN Support alone, an EHCP can write mental health support into their provision — separate from and in addition to any CAMHS involvement. This can include therapeutic support via an EHCP even if CAMHS has not accepted the referral.
If the referral is accepted, you will usually be contacted for a triage call or first appointment. CAMHS appointments typically involve both parent and child, at least initially. The first appointment is usually an assessment — one or sometimes two sessions — where the clinician gathers information about your child's history, current symptoms, and how difficulties are affecting daily life.
You will be asked to describe what you are seeing at home. The clinician will also speak to your child directly, and may ask to speak to them separately for part of the appointment, particularly if they are older (usually 12 and up, sometimes younger). Be as specific and concrete as possible — the same approach as the referral letter. What you actually observe, when, and what the impact is.
The assessment may lead to: further assessment sessions, a waiting list for a specific therapy or intervention, a referral within CAMHS to a more specialist pathway (eating disorders, psychosis, early intervention), or a decision that a different service is more appropriate. Ask at the end of any assessment appointment what the next steps are and what the expected timeline is.
A note on neurodivergent children and CAMHS: CAMHS services vary widely in their autism and ADHD competence. Some teams include neurodivergent specialists; others are better equipped for neurotypical presentations of anxiety or depression. If your child is autistic or has ADHD, it is reasonable to ask the assessing clinician what experience the team has with neurodivergent young people and what adaptations they make to their therapeutic approach. CBT, for example, may need significant adaptation to be useful for autistic children. You can ask about this directly.
CAMHS is not a crisis service. If your child is in immediate danger — at risk of suicide, self-harm, or harm to others — do not wait for a CAMHS appointment. Go to your GP for an emergency appointment, go to A&E, or call 999. You can also call 111 or the Samaritans on 116 123 at any time of day or night. If your child is already under CAMHS care, the team will usually have given you an emergency contact number — use it if things escalate outside of appointment hours.
If your child is struggling but not in immediate crisis, and the wait for CAMHS feels unsurvivable, going back to the GP to flag that the situation has worsened since the original referral can sometimes prompt a re-triage and faster access.
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